A Sex Toy Guide for Beginners
Using sex toys for the first time is intimidating only because you’ve never tried it before. Walking into an adult shop might not be the route you want to take as a beginner since you’ll likely be faced with hundreds of products to choose from. Ease into it by exploring your body alone or with a partner to see what feels good to you. Then bite (or buy) the bullet and shop online for one of these popular sex toys for beginners.
Because many women prefer (and need) clitoral stimulation to get off, vibrators remain among the most popular sex toys on the market. They come in various sizes, speeds, and colors – some waterproof and others suited solely for the bedroom. The Rabbit is a perfect segue from manual masturbation to battery-powered orgasms due to its dual functionality, offering both internal and clitoral stimulation. If it still seems overwhelming, try a pocket-sized bullet meant only for the clitoris.
What was once a taboo topic is now a popular sex act enjoyed openly by men and women. Anal play feels good – really good – but it’s difficult to know where to begin if you’ve never experienced it. A small butt plug designed for first-time use will get you comfortable with the sensation of feeling full. It’s easy to use, clean, and impossible to get “stuck” due to the flared base. Graduate later to anal beads or a dildo – just remember that your back door is not self-lubricating like a vagina. Lube is necessary and when you think you’ve used enough, use more.
Long and slim, texturized with extra girth, strap-on accessories – the possibilities are endless when it comes to dildos. They are straightforward and easy to use, making them a great choice for the nervous newbie. Start with an average-sized model like the Bartender Miguel Dildo and remember to use plenty of lube. They’re called “realistic” dildos for a reason – their appearance and the sensations they give will leave you as satisfied as the real deal.
While dildos and anal toys can be unisex, there is no shortage of male or penis-exclusive sex toys on the market. From cock rings to pocket pussies, you can enjoy sex in a whole new way – both with a partner and without. Beginners might consider the Reusable Vibrating C- ring, which will cause your erection to become more engorged while giving you added sensations down below. A rubber stroker, like the Balls Deep 9 inches Pussy Stroker Frost, is also a great addition to your nightstand drawer – self-explanatory and easy to clean. Think of it as an upgraded hand job.
Ahh, the enchanting world of kink. When you feel ready to delve into deeper fantasies, try a Beginners Bondage Kit that includes a paddle, eye mask, and ties for your wrists and ankles. While there are many sub-cultures within the BDSM scene, the basic idea is a consensual power play involving one partner as the dominant and the other as the submissive. Beginner kits are great for restricting the senses which enhances suspense and arousal.
At Caliente Adult Superstore, we know that the best sex toys are the ones you’ll pull from your closet or drawer over and over again – and we carry just about every toy you can imagine. Remember: there’s absolutely no shame in being a beginner, just approach new acts with an open mind. And don’t forget to wash all toys after use – getting dirty isn’t fun or safe in the literal sense.