6 Ideas to Help You Get Kinky with Bed Restraints

You bought yourself a set of bed restraints for some kinky fun with bondage. Now what? There are so many ways to have fun with a partner, whether you’re tying them to the bed or you’re the one tied down.

Here are a few ideas to get you started so you have all the kinky fun you can handle.

Teasing or Tickling Touches

Once a partner is immobilized at both their wrists and ankles, their most sensitive spots are completely available to you. While a lot of people think of pain when they think kink, it doesn’t have to be that way. With nothing but time, soft lighting, and a slight sadistic streak, you can let your fingertips do all the work. Lightly touch their skin. Tickle them, if that’s something you’re both willing to try. The entire point is that they’re helpless and in your control — and control doesn’t always have to be painful.

Orgasm Control

Being tied down to the bed is the perfect time to play with more orgasm control. Grab a vibrator or any sex toy that gets them aroused and keeps them that way. How you play depends on what kind of control your partner gives you. Do you want to edge them until they’re begging for release? You’ll need to keep the sex toy moving back and forth to tease them. Want to force an orgasm or two? Turn it on high and hold it there. Ultimately, all they can do (assuming they don’t use a safeword or ask you to stop) is writhe in a sexy way.

Role Play

If you’ve got a taboo fantasy about kidnapping or a fun one about pirates and wenches, bed restraints definitely have a role to play (pun intended). Consider this a prop in your overall scene. It can have as little or as big of a part in the way you act out your fantasy as you want. In many role play scenes, the action really gets started as soon as you or your partner get tied to the bed. That’s when the real fun begins!

Waiting Game

Want to be a little sadistic with your partner? In a way that requires almost no effort from anyone? Tie your partner to the bed with the restraints. Blindfold them. Maybe whisper sexy, kinky promises in their ear. Now sit back and wait. You can play the game so that they think you’ve left them alone or you can make it very clear that you’re watching them as they lie helpless on the bed. For some people the silence and anticipation are enough to make them beg for your touch.

Is Someone Else Here?

Add this one to a role play game, but a very specific one — a threesome fantasy. With a bit of misdirection, play-acting, and creativity, you can convince your partner that a third person is in the room with you, watching them, maybe even touching them. Of course, you’ll need a blindfold so they can’t see anything. If you’re really into dirty talk and have a good imagination, you can do it all by talking to them. But if you want to make them go a little crazy with lust, add in a few touches or a sex toy.

Sensual Massage

Not all kinky fun has to involve pain, torture, or denial. Sometimes the kink you enjoy is about being tied up and out of control. That means you can do gentle, soothing things and it’s still kind of kinky. Give your partner a sensual massage with oils and lotions. Run your hands over every inch of their body, spending plenty of time on their erogenous zones. Give them an orgasm or not, but before you’re done, they’ll be begging for release — in more ways than one.

Conclusion

Want to incorporate spankings, wax play, rough sex, and other kinds of kinky fun into your bondage play instead? Go for it! The only thing that matters is that both partners consent, and you keep the lines of communication open from start to finish. No matter how sensual or sadistic your kinky play is, bed restraints make the moment better than you imagined. Even better, you don’t have to know how to tie a knot to have fun with bondage.