Whether you’re brand new to bondage or curious about exploring BDSM, you might have heard of impact play. But what exactly is it and how does it work? Impact Play: What? In a nutshell, impact play is about consensually hitting someone or being hit for kinky or sexual purposes. It’s an umbrella term that includes […]
BDSM is a four-for-six acronym that encompases bondage and discipline (B&D,) dominance and submission (D&S,) and sadism and masochism (S&M.) It includes many different activities, from rope bondage to spanking and hot wax play to power exchange. If you’re just starting out, it can be difficult to know what to include in your BDSM toy […]
Valentine’s Day is the day of love. But for adventurous couples, it can also be a great excuse to get a little kinky and try some fun new activities in the bedroom. In the current age of social distancing, you might be looking for some creative ways to spice up your Valentine’s Day at home. […]
A collar is one of the most common and popular items that kinksters use in their BDSM fun. For the person in the submissive role, collars offer an easy way to get into the submissive mindset. For tops and dominants, it’s a great way to exert control while you play. If you want to add […]
The holiday season doesn’t just have to be about the money you spend and the gifts under the tree. It can also be about the quality time spent with people you care about, including (and especially!) your partner. If you’re looking for a new way to get sexy this holiday season, why not use Christmas-themed […]
For some people, getting kinky involves elaborate role-play games, sexy costumes or lingerie, a bunch of bondage gear, and, most importantly, plenty of time. But the reality is that most of us just don’t have the kind of time we’d like to for our sexy fun. You don’t have to skip your kinky fantasies when […]
October is a lot of things — the start of fall, a time to celebrate Halloween, an opportunity to eat as much candy as possible, and Kinktober. Which makes it a time to celebrate all things kinky and BDSM. From bondage fantasies to playing with orgasms, there are plenty of ways to enjoy Kinktober this […]
A lot of people have bondage fantasies. They want to pin their partner to the bed or be the one tied up and feeling helpless. It can seem like you need a lot of special skills and kinky toys to even try bondage, but that’s not necessarily the case. Here are three ways to explore […]
Getting kinky with your partner might be a dream come true, but if you’re not careful, it can become a nightmare. BDSM and kink can be amazing experiences when done well, but they also allow people to play on the edge of danger, too. Safety precautions have to be taken to make sure everyone has […]
The COLT brand has been around in some form or fashion since 1967. Owned by Cal Exotics, the brand offers hyper-masculine sex toys for the guy who wants to feel like a man — no matter what kind of sex he’s having. If you’re getting kinky or trying out a bondage fantasy, consider adding one […]
The nipples, for many people, not just cisgender women, are a highly sensitive spot on the body. When touched in just the right way, the result is pleasure and excitement. In kink and bondage, nipple play becomes something beyond the usual tweak and suck you might be used to, though. While nipple play isn’t inherently […]
What does your bondage fantasy look like? Is your partner tied up with a restraint kit? Will you use colorful bondage tape? Are you practicing your rope skills? Once you figure out the bondage part, there’s still another question to answer. What other toys and gear will you add to the fantasy to make it […]
