7 Bondage Toys to Buy Each Other for Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is the day of love. But for adventurous couples, it can also be a great excuse to get a little kinky and try some fun new activities in the bedroom. In the current age of social distancing, you might be looking for some creative ways to spice up your Valentine’s Day at home. If so, why not experiment with bondage?
Bondage often refers to tying each other up, but it can also be an umbrella term for different kinds of kinky activities. These might include playing with restraint, power, and/or pain.
Here are seven of our favorite bondage toys you and your lover could buy each other this Valentine’s Day.
Hemp Bondage Rope
Rope bondage (sometimes known by its Japanese names, shibari or kinbaku) is both kinky and aesthetically beautiful. Fancy trying your hand at a body harness or tying your partner to the bed so you can have your wicked way with them?
Natural fiber ropes are popular among rope bondage aficionados for their strength, durability, and softness. We love this hemp rope, which comes in 30m lengths and looks and feels sexy as hell!
Under-Bed Restraint Kit
Kink up your bedroom with an under-bed restraint kit. Just slip the tethers under your mattress (suitable for any size of bed) and you’ll be all set to start playing. The cuffs allow you to tie your partner to the bed in a spread-eagled position, or you can use the hogtie to experiment with all kinds of different configurations. We love them all but a current favorite is the Strict Bed Restraint kit.
When you’re done, simply tuck the restraints out of sight until the next time you’re ready to play. Turn your bedroom into the dungeon of your dreams in moments!
Blindfold
Blindfolds are a kinky staple for a reason. When you remove one sense, all the others heighten. So whether you’re playing with power, experimenting with pain play, or doing a sensual sensation play scene, using a blindfold can take your pleasure to the next level. Slip it over your partner’s eyes, and get ready to take control.
Bonus: when you’re finished, it can double as a sleep mask like this Fetish Fantasy Satin Love Mask!
Cock Cage
What’s the best way to take complete control of someone? Control their sexual release.
Chastity play is all about locking up your partner’s junk so that he can only touch himself when you give him permission. Whether you keep it confined to the bedroom or lock him up for longer is entirely up to the two of you. He’ll soon be willing to do anything you want in exchange for being unlocked. We recommend the Shots Man Cage Model 1 but there are also multiple other styles in this line to choose from!
Just don’t forget where you put the key! (Pro tip: some kinky couples find it really sexy for the Dominant to wear the key to their submissive’s cock cage around their neck.)
Collar
Collars are very popular in the bondage and BDSM world. However, they can mean lots of different things. Some people see a collar as nothing more than a tool for kinky play. To others, they’re a symbol of an intense commitment not unlike an engagement or wedding ring. So if you and your partner are going to use a collar together, make sure you agree on what it means!
Assuming you’re on the same page, why not choose a collar together as part of your Valentine’s Day date? Collars come in tonnes of different materials, designs, and colors. Rouge’s burgundy leather collar is a favorite of ours.
Body Harness
Body harnesses are usually made of leather or a leather-like material, and they serve two purposes. They look really hot, and they can also be used as restraints as part of a bondage scene – for example, you might connect a leash to your partner’s harness, or use it to keep their hands out of use. The possibilities are endless!
We’re obsessed with the Maze H harness by Bijoux Indiscrets, which is made of black vegan leather and is both gorgeous and functional.
Heart Paddle
Awww…. And ouch!
If you want to make your pain play a little more romantic this Valentine’s Day, why not invest in a heart-shaped impact toy such as the Enchanted Heart Paddle from Sex and Mischief? Stroke your partner gently with the soft fur side, then deliver a sharp sting with the flat side. Romance has never been so kinky!
Conclusion
Do you want to get your lover a kinky or bondage-inspired Valentine’s Day gift? Make choosing something together part of your date night. Open a bottle of wine and open up about your fantasies as you browse our bondage collection and find the perfect toy to spice things up this Valentine’s Day and beyond.