How to Increase Your Sexual Stamina with a Fleshlight

How to Increase Your Sexual Stamina with a Fleshlight

Tired of being a one-minute man? Want to last longer in bed? Think about sexual stamina like you would your gym routine. If you want to get stronger or faster, you’ve got to train. In this case, if you want to slow down and last during sex, train yourself with a Fleshlight you love and a few tips.

Here’s what you can do to last longer.

Edge Yourself

Close-up Of A Man’s Hand Unzipping The Blue JeansEdging — bringing yourself to the brink of an orgasm and stopping right before you explode — is thought of as a kinky thing. And it can be. But it’s also a great training tool for increasing your sexual stamina. Instead of doing it with your hand, try it with a Fleshlight.

The benefit of using your Fleshlight to edge yourself is that you also get used to the realistic sensations of the silky material. Edging yourself with your hand can work to an extent, but the moment you sink into a warm, willing body, all that training may be forgotten. Let your Fleshlight double for the kitty or booty you really crave and edge yourself with it until you can last longer.

Get Used to Realistic Sensations

We mentioned this above, but it’s worth saying again. Fleshlight is the preferred sex toy for men because it feels realistic. When you can’t get down with a partner, you can have the next best thing. This can work to your advantage when you want to last longer during sex.

Fleshlight’s patented material will mimic the sensations you’ll feel during penetrative sex. The more you use your stroker, the easier it will be to adjust to the stimulation. That way, when you’re naked with a partner, you won’t overreact the moment you’re in deep. You’ll be used to it.

Slow Your Pace

Young black man in bed looking at his penisIf you’ve ever jacked off like you were at a race, your best option is to slow down! Masturbating quickly has its merits, but if you’re trying to build up your stamina, you’ve got to pick a better tempo. Give your hand a break and grab your Fleshlight for this instead.

Going slowly might not feel natural to you, so do this in steps. Each time you use your stroker, slow down a little from the time before. You don’t have to go dramatically slower to make a difference. Keep decreasing your speed until you find a pace that’s slow enough to give you more time but still fast enough to feel good.

Focus on Your Body’s Reactions

You know what it feels like right before you get off. Maybe your testicles tighten or your shaft swells just a little bit. While using your Fleshlight, focus on those sensations. Don’t think about your pace, your tempo, or even the sleeve itself. Concentrate on what your body feels like as you get closer to the edge of an orgasm.

The point is to slow down or stop completely at a point that feels good to you but that won’t ruin your orgasm. When you learn how your body reacts as it builds up to a climax, you can control what you do when you feel certain sensations. Slow down the tempo with your Fleshlight or stop completely. When you get close to the edge during sex, this is a great time to focus on your partner’s pleasure before starting up again.

Get a Stamina Training Unit

Fleshlight Pink Lady Stamina Training UnitMaybe you’ve tried every trick with your favorite Fleshlight, and you’re still not seeing any noticeable difference. Maybe you haven’t bought a Fleshlight yet, and you’re not sure which one to choose. Now may be the perfect time for the Stamina Training Unit (STU). It’s purpose is in the name.

Instead of the bells and whistles of some of the other Fleshlight models, the STU is designed to replicate penetrative sex with a few slight variations to increase your endurance. Your penis will glide in easily but you’ll feel the squeeze with each thrust. As you pull out, the textured material will grip your shaft, creating extra sensation. Use the STU — with or without our tips — on a regular basis, and you’ll build up your sexual stamina in no time.


Just like strength training or getting ready for a marathon, increasing your sexual stamina requires time and consistency. You’ve got to crawl before you can walk and walk before you can run. Grab your favorite Fleshlight or pick up a new one and use our tips to boost your sexual stamina and improve your sex life!

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