How to Find the Right Vibrator for Ultimate Pleasure

Buying a new vibrator can feel like a gamble. You know you want any new toy to feel good, but you don’t know if it’ll have enough power or hit the right spot. Pick a few too many sex toys that don’t do what you want, and you can start to think there’s something wrong with you.

There’s not anything wrong with your body or your ability to feel pleasure when a sex toy doesn’t get you off or feel good. You just haven’t found the right vibrator that works best for you — yet. But don’t worry, we’ve got a few tips to make choosing your next vibrator a little easier so you’re more likely to feel nothing but pleasure when you use it.

Touch Yourself

Before you buy a vibrator, you need to know what gets you off. The best way to do this is to touch yourself — yep, masturbate — and explore your body. Figure out what you like and what you don’t like.

• Finger yourself and try to find your g-spot. Does it feel good? Do you want more of that?
• Stroke your clitoris. Is that the right spot? Do you like it harder and faster or softer and slower?
• Use both hands to touch both at the same time. How does that feel?

When you masturbate, you can also change up the intensity of your own touch. Touch other parts of your body. Be more firm or rougher on your vulva and change the pace and intensity of your touch. Take note of what you like and what you don’t like. There are no wrong answers here, but figuring it out will help you select your new vibrator.

Think About Stimulation

When you were masturbating, did you change up the pace and roughness of your own touch? If you did, you were playing with stimulation. Before you buy a vibrator, you need to give that more thought. What kind of stimulation would you like to feel?

• Wanting big rumbly vibrations or something powerful and even overwhelming could mean a body massager is right for you.
• Only wanting soft stimulation or teasing touches may mean a bullet vibrator or small basic vibe is what you need.

And if you want a wide variety of stimulation, you should look for a vibrator that offers multiple settings or customization, like through a mobile app. Otherwise you’ll need to get more than one toy.

Think About Where

Vibrators and vulvas go together quite well, if you enjoy that kind of stimulation. But before you buy your vibrator, think back to when you masturbated. Where was the touch and stimulation you enjoyed the most — internal, external, or both?

• Any vibrator that can be inserted into your body can potentially hit your g-spot. But for the best results, look for a curved g-spot vibrator.
• If you love clitoral stimulation, any vibrator can provide pleasure. But body massagers and vibes that fit snugly against your vulva might give you more of what you crave.
• And for anyone who wants both g-spot and clitoral stimulation, a rabbit vibrator may become your new best friend.

Discreet or Not

Vibrators can be noisy or discreet. Typically, the larger they are, the louder they are. Vibrators made of ABS plastic also tend to be loud as the motor rattles against the plastic. If not having your sex toy fun discovered is important to you, look for a vibrator that is made to be quiet. Bullet vibrators and small vibrators tend to be quieter, but some larger vibes are constructed to be less obvious than others. Read product descriptions and reviews before you buy to know what you’re getting.

Conclusion

Buying a new vibrator doesn’t have to be complicated. But if you’ve been disappointed in the past or this is your first purchase, there are things you can do to find something you’ll love. The first step is always to figure out what gets you off so you can narrow down your choices. After that, read the information and make educated guesses based on what you like, what you need, and (most importantly) what you want from your vibrator and when you use it. At Caliente Adult Superstore, we have plenty of vibrators to choose from so you can find the perfect toy for you.