7 Ways to Get Off With Your Dildo
If you use your favorite dildo primarily for vaginal penetration — during masturbation or sex with a partner — you’re not alone. But there are plenty of ways to enjoy yourself, alone or with a partner, when you play with a dildo, especially if you’ve got sexual fantasies you’d like to explore.
Looking for a few new ideas to try out with a favorite dildo? Check these out!
Fantasy Lover
Your dildo can add plenty of realism to your masturbation fantasies and become the lover you crave. Maybe you give it a blowjob and imagine the person behind the shaft. Use a suction cup mount and ride it like you would your lover. Tease the tip with your tongue or your body and imagine the moans of tortured pleasure. Your dildo doesn’t have to look like a real penis to play a part in your fantasies.
Anal Fun
If you’re new to anal penetration, you’ll want to start with something small, but nearly any dildo has a place in booty fun.
- Use plenty of lubricant to avoid unnecessary pain.
- Go slowly and allow your body (or your partner’s) to relax during penetration.
- Consider dildos with added texture for extra stimulation, especially once you’re used to the sensations.
- Don’t penetrate your butt and then a vagina without cleaning your dildo first. If you plan to use it this way, put a condom on your dildo for anal fun and take it off for vaginal penetration.
Watch Yourself
Be your own private porn star with your dildo by watching yourself in a mirror. If that’s not an option, set up your smartphone or camera and hit record so you can watch the action later. You can pretend you’re being watched by someone else, if that gets you off. And if watching yourself later turns you on, let that be the reason you masturbate again and again with your dildo.
Strapon Sex
It doesn’t matter if you have fantasies of penetrating your partner or being penetrated by a partner, your dildo is the star of the strapon sex show. Don’t be afraid to explore those desires with a willing partner. Take your time, try different positions, and remember to have fun. It’s easy to get stressed out if it’s your first time, but if you slow down and communicate with each other, you’re more likely to have a great experience.
Temperature Play
Love the contrast of hot and cold? Glass dildos are perfect for temperature play. Put one in the freezer or refrigerator and run the other under warm or hot water. Be careful not to get your dildos too hot or cold because you could hurt yourself or your partner. When the temps feel just right, place the cold and warm dildos against your most sensitive parts. Figure out which you enjoy more and focus on the new sensations and pleasure.
Threesome Fantasy
Whether it’s just you or you and partner, and you have a threesome fantasy involving penetration, a dildo is the perfect addition. While masturbating, add two dildos and fantasize about what they and the fantasy lovers attached to them might do to you. If you have a partner, use the dildo to hit the spots your partner can’t reach. Give your dildo a name or don’t. Make it as real as you like. Most importantly, have fun!
Double Penetration
Double penetration doesn’t have to be part of a threesome fantasy. You may simply want to push boundaries and explore new sensations. Again, this works whether you have a partner with a penis or not. Just remember to go slowly, take your time, and use lots of lube. If you need to start with smaller dildos first, do it. The point of this entire thing is pleasure. You can work up to larger toys and quicker movement over time, but always focus on what feels good in your DP fantasies.
Conclusion
Any fantasy involving a penis needs a good dildo. Big and thick, small and thin, or average — the size doesn’t matter as much as the fun you have with it. Look for the right dildo to fit the fantasy you want to explore and keep plenty of lubricant nearby. But don’t be afraid to let your imagination run wild, whether you’re getting off alone or you’re having a sexy, kinky good time with your partner. The right dildo can make the entire experience better than you ever imagined.
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