7 Toys to Try If You Want to Get Kinky

Getting kinky means something different to everyone. You can do it a little, to spice things up, or a lot because it’s a big part of how you get off whenever you have sex or masturbate. Whether you’re completely new to the idea of kink, or you’ve been getting kinky for a while, there are always new things to experience.

If you’ve been using what you’ve got around your bedroom and want to kink things up even more, check out the different types of sex toys you can try.

Blindfolds

A good blindfold makes it so you (or your partner) can’t see what’s happening which heightens every other sense and adds an element of surprise. But it should also feel comfortable against your face and be easy to wear for as long as you want. Look for a soft material that can fit against the face easily. You’ll also want a large enough blindfold that no one can “cheat” by looking down and still see everything.

Bondage Tape

If the idea of tying up your partner (or being tied up) is sexy, but you’re all thumbs when it comes to rope, try bondage tape instead. It sticks to itself, not the skin, so it can be pulled off easily without hurting anyone. You can get it in different colors if you have a preference. Best of all, you can still try most bondage positions that use rope without as much stress. Nearly every kink thing you can do with rope bondage, you can also do with bondage tape.

Bed Restraints

Maybe tape isn’t your thing, and you just want an easy to to restrain each other in bed. If you’ve tried scarves, ties, or even the sash from a robe, you know those don’t always hold well or they get stuck and you can’t untie them. Try a bed restraint kit instead. They fit under your mattress and work with existing cuffs you have or they include cuffs usually with velcro straps. The restraints can be easily hidden under the bed or mattress, and they’re always there when you need them.

Sex Toys

Any sex toy can be kinked up. Vibrators, dildos, masturbation strokers — if it brings you or your partner pleasure, you can make it kinkier. How? It’s called orgasm control, and you can play in a lot of different ways.

• Forced orgasms — overwhelming sensations that cause a fast and hard orgasm
• Edged orgasms — being brought to the edge of orgasm but not getting to come
• Orgasm denial — being told no when you really want to climax

Butt Plugs

For some people, anything anal is automatically kinky. If you agree, a butt plug is a great way to kink up your butt fun. Start small if you’re new to anal penetration, and always use plenty of lube. You can put in your plug for sex or wear it under your clothes — whatever feels kinkiest to you. Be sure to add more lube if you have your plug in for a while. There’s no known limit on how long you can wear a butt plug, but if it gets uncomfortable, take it out.

Paddles

For the spankos out there, paddles are just one of many ways to get kinky with a spanking. Most of us start with bare-handed spankings, and those are hot AF. But when you want to add more sensation, paddles are a great way to begin. A big, heavy paddle will usually create a deep thud sensation. A thin, light paddle usually stings. But whether it stings or not depends on the person using it, so don’t let appearances fool you.

Sex Swings

If a sex swing sounds like an advanced-level toy, it doesn’t have to be. Swings are great for people with mobility problems and those who just want to try different positions. But if you’re looking for kinkier fun, sex swings put your partner at your mercy (consensually, of course). They’re open and exposed, and you can touch them from multiple angles. Whether you’re giving them oral, using a vibrator, or just having sex, sex swings are great for kinky fun!

Conclusion

You don’t need toys or bondage gear to get kinky. All you really need is your imagination and the consent of your partner. But toys add sensations and let you get creative when you want to spice things up. Once you find the first kinky toy that you love, it’s like going down a kinky rabbit hole. You’ll want to try more and more, and we don’t blame you! Just remember, any sex toy can be kinky if you and your partner want it to be.

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