What is a Dildo?
Gone are the days of hiding your sex toys and feeling anxious at the thought of breaching the topic with your partner. The truth is, dildos are now commonplace in the bedroom and have little to do with the notion of lonely women or sex-crazed lovers. Anyone can appreciate a fake cock as they come in a variety of shapes, lengths, widths, colors and functions.
Don’t be afraid to spice up your love life with a new toy by referencing the following guide to dildos for women and men.
Dildos 101
When shopping for a dildo, you might feel overwhelmed by your choices—especially if you’ve never used one. It’s helpful to narrow the search to suit your personal preferences (and believe us—there’s one for every desire). Do you fantasize about being fucked by your favorite porn star? Do you want to penetrate your husband with a strap-on? Maybe you want a dildo to use for solo play when you’re feeling horny? Whatever you prefer, start here:
Note: a vibrator refers to an electrical or battery operated toy. We’ll cover those in another blog.
- Material: Dildos can be made from many different materials that can alter the feel of the shaft and determine its proper care. Dildos can be made from plastic, latex, silicone, “jelly”—even glass or wood. We recommend a silicone or glass toy for first timers—it’s easy to clean and carries a lower risk of irritation.
- Shape: Naturally, a dildo is phallic-shaped. However, they can be straight, curved, flared, or ribbed. Choose a double-sided dildo for simultaneous insertion with you and your partner or a toy with two dildos facing the same way for vaginal and anal play.
- Size: While you may be turned on by the idea of 10-inch cock, the reality might not meet the expectation. We suggest starting with a width and length that best mirrors your real-life experience (typically 5-6 inches). Start too big and you could experience pain either from misuse or lack of lubrication.
- Lube and cleaner: Speaking of lube, make sure it’s compatible with your particular toy. Lube can be oil-based, water-based, silicone-based or a hybrid mix. When in doubt, choose a water-based lube that’s safe for all toys. Don’t forget the toy cleanser either. A clean sex toy is one you can use whenever you’re ready to play.
How to Use a Dildo
The possibilities for dildo play are truly endless. When used as intended, a fake dong will mimic the sensation of penetrative sex as if you were feeling the natural thrust of a penis. Beginners will simply want to lie down, relax, and ease the toy into the vagina or anus slowly—making sure you have enough lubrication. Because the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, be sure to always apply a generous amount of lubricant to both the skin and toy. Once you’re comfortable, move the toy in and out at whatever speed and intensity you prefer. There’s no wrong way to play! Once you have the basics down, don’t be afraid to try something new.
Suction dildos: Position your toy on the floor, wall, or in the shower—then take control and ride it from up top.
Strap-on dildos: Whether you look into hollow dildos for men or interchangeable strap-on dildos for women, there’s something for everyone—both sexes and orientations.
Huge dildos: Want to go bigger? Find a toy with large balls or extra-thick girth. See if your favorite porn star has a product line.
Conclusion
The most important thing to know is that your desire to play with a dildo is perfectly normal. If you’re afraid to bring it up with your partner, just remember honesty and open communication are key.
At Caliente Adult Superstore, we carry a full line of dildos and lots of other great sex toys, lubes and more. Visit us today and see what tickles your fancy.