How to Introduce Bondage to Your Relationship

How to Introduce Bondage to Your Relationship

There are many stigmas around bondage, but it can be a fantastic way to mix things up in the bedroom and become closer to your partner.  There is a wide spectrum when it comes to bondage, from simply blindfolding your lover to restraining them with ropes or chains.  

If you’re interested in introducing bondage to the bedroom, bring it up and be open.  It’s important to set boundaries and not spring any surprises on your partner.  It can be triggering for some to be restrained, so it’s best to make sure you both know your own and each other’s limits.  Make sure you’re both clear-minded and in a safe place when you start your steamy talk!

Conversation starters are a good way to slowly start adding bondage to your sex life.  Ask each other open questions, not anything that only lends a “yes” or “no” response.  As things start heating up try to ask your boo things like “How would you feel if we tried a blindfold in the bedroom tonight?” or “I’ve had a fantasy about one of us taking control. What do you think about that?”  This opens up the option for both of you to express what you want and experiment.  Finding out what each of you likes is all part of the fun!

If you are feeling any reservations or realize that you don’t enjoy something, don’t keep it to yourself!  There are legitimate reasons why we don’t enjoy some things, and your partner can work with you to keep testing new things to find what you like.  Starter kits can be very helpful as they offer a variety of toys and tools you can use.  There shouldn’t be any shame or guilt associated with bondage, so if those feelings come up, take a step back and revisit your boundaries.

If you are looking to add toys to help with your intro to bondage, make sure you’re choosing the right kind.  You want quality toys so that you’re comfortable and safe.  It’s important to know if you’re interested in trying to enhance sensory play and foreplay, and if you’re looking into restraints, do you want to be able to escape yourself?  There are so many purchases you can make to build your bondage accessory set.

Caliente Adult Superstore is the perfect place to shop as you delve into the world of bondage!  Our online shop allows you to browse our wide variety of sex toys from the comfort of your own home and have them shipped to you discreetly!  Visit us at one of our two locations today.

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Stephanie Written by Stephanie.