Discover an Introduction to BDSM Fun

Discover an Introduction to BDSM Fun

“Sex without pain is much like food without taste.” The words of the Marquis de Sade spoken two centuries ago illustrate the compulsion of using submission to heighten a sexual experience. When you and your partner are ready to journey into this world there are a few important things to remember. We’ve compiled a short list of factoids to elevate the experience. 

Set Boundaries 

No matter what happens in the bedroom, the most important thing to remember is consent. If there’s a boundary that someone doesn’t want to cross, or if an activity doesn’t agree with their sensibilities, don’t push the issue. Understand that assuming dominant and submissive roles doesn’t mean complete control over everything that your partner wishes to do or not do. 

Establish Roles

In de Sade’s sister characters of Justine and Juliette, the author established the opposites and personalities that exist in this type of relationship. Before anything else takes place in the privacy of your bedroom, establishing the roles you and your partner will play is important. A typical way to look at it is a master/servant or dominant/submissive approach. It essentially comes down to the one who’s punished and the one who holds the whip. 

Where Do They Get Those Marvelous Toys? 

Once agreements have been reached by each participant, you might want to add some spice to the batch. This will not only make the night that much more enjoyable, but the right items can greatly heighten the sensation. While rope is certainly standard, and handcuffs are a no-brainer, there are plenty of other stimulants. Riding crops and whips have been known to bring any sexual experience to the heights of decadence and pleasure. Sensory deprivation items such as blindfolds can also bring the submissive half into the throes of ecstasy. It’s advisable for newcomers to take things gradually and see what works for them on an individual basis. 

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